Here's the summary in a nutshell - People don't come back because there is no reason to come back. People know what an abusive environment and culture looks and sounds like and they don't want to be part of one and so they don't come back - they have no reason to. They don't come back when the main focus is on the maintenance of a club, rather than some kind of larger meaning. They don't come back if they aren't going to encounter God. Let me say, some people want a club. Some people want to an abusive culture. Some people want anything else rather than an encounter with God. And they will find what they need. But for people serious about faith, they will look elsewhere because why waste your time?