Jesus doesn’t give us an enemy…

Advent offers us a different way to see the world and each other. Advent isn’t so much about preparing for Christmas, as it is preparing for Jesus. That might sound nuanced, but it’s not really.

Yes, Christmas is technically about the birth of Jesus, but in our culture, Jesus is overshadowed by so much. Our culture relegates Jesus to being a helpless baby — someone who doesn’t mess with anything going on in the world. Except that’s about as far removed from what Jesus coming in the world actually means.

Advent is about preparing for Jesus. Letting go of baggage that holds us back from encountering Jesus. Making room in our lives and in our communities for Jesus — regardless of how he shows up. Making room by removing assumptions that are unhelpful and unChristlike. Making room by letting go of scapegoating and othering.

Too many people need an other, an enemy, to help them define who they are. Ask people to tell you about themselves. Often they will resort to telling you about stuff outside of themselves. Their work, their beliefs, their position, their location.

Talking about who you really are is not easy. Especially when we can’t use other things to define who we are.

An enemy doesn’t really define us. It tells us who we are not, not who we are. In one sense though, talking about an enemy does telegraph a bit about who we are — the less pleasant things about who we are anyway. Usually we project on an enemy the things we don’t like about ourselves.